For the horsewoman who's done guessing — and ready to finally feel safe, willing, and connected in the saddle
The Circle of Confidence™
Built for real-life schedules
Any horse · Any level · Any discipline
The Heart Equation · 1+1=1
2,672+ horse girls served
Weekly live coaching with Jenny
77-Day Seasons of Becoming
Connection · Confidence · Consistency
7-day free trial · cancel anytime
Earn the buckle in 77 days
The Circle of Confidence™
Built for real-life schedules
Any horse · Any level · Any discipline
The Heart Equation · 1+1=1
2,672+ horse girls served
Weekly live coaching with Jenny
77-Day Seasons of Becoming
Connection · Confidence · Consistency
7-day free trial · cancel anytime
Earn the buckle in 77 days
The Extraordinary Horsemanship Journey
With Jenny Rohlen · HorseGirl.me
A connection-based horsemanship coaching program for horsewomen searching for more out of life & horsemanship · Try free for 7 days

Build the confidence, the skills, and the horse who trusts you enough to try anything together

A horsewoman building a trusting bond with her horse

Not by showing them who's boss. Not by chasing their feet.
Not by making the wrong things hard.

An extraordinary partnership built on connection, relaxation, mutual trust - and a leader who is calm, clear, and finally trusts herself.

Find Your Path

No risk · Cancel anytime · Less than half the cost of a single lesson

"Just one week and I feel like I have a new horse. I cannot even describe how I'm feeling."

— H. Queen

The Difference

Where you are today vs. where you're headed

Right now, without a system
Guessing what to work on every ride
Starting strong, falling off in two weeks
Second-guessing every cue
A horse who's tight, spooky, or shut down
Talking yourself out of saddling up
Trying harder. Getting smaller results. Quietly losing faith in yourself.
vs
Inside the Journey
Clarity on what to work on
Consistent showing up
Calm in the saddle
A horse who softens & connects
A version of you you're proud of
Showing up steady. Seeing real change. Becoming the horsewoman your horse can trust.
Jenny with Raven, Bilbo and Bella
Sound Familiar?

If most days, it still feels like you're guessing…

01You walk to the barn and think, "Okay… what should we work on today?" Instead of a clear plan, you piece things together from random lessons, videos, and advice — hoping something finally sticks.
02When pressure hits — a spook, a sticky spot, asking for something your horse doesn't understand — you can feel it. You lose your timing. You second-guess your feel. You hesitate. Your horse feels that uncertainty… so they get tight, resistant, spooky, or shut down. And then you doubt yourself even more.
03You've invested in the fancy tack, the best supplements, and the big-name clinics promising breakthrough results. You've alternated between "showing them who's boss" and treating your horse like fragile glass who might break at the slightest pressure. Neither extreme worked.
04You've been told to chase your horse in circles until they "join up." You've been told to sit quietly and wait for your horse to choose you. You've been told your horse has "a human problem" — without anyone telling you what to do about it.
05You start routines with the best intentions, then life gets busy and you fall off track. The guilt is heavier than the time you lost. You're starting over again — and quietly wondering if you're just not cut out for this.
06The worst part? You know you're capable of more. You know your horse is capable of more. You just haven't been given a clear path to get there that feels good to you.

…then this is for you.

The Shift

Here's what changes when you have coaching, confidence-building habits, and a system your horse can trust 

✕ Walking in & guessing
You walk into the barn with a calm confidence that wasn't there before. No second-guessing - just clarity about what you're working on today and why it matters.
✕ Lost timing & shaky feel
Your horse feels your calm - and starts offering more willingness and try. Your cues get softer. Your timing gets cleaner. Your feel improves every session.
✕ A horse who leaves you behind
When something unexpected happens - a bag, a dog, a spooky corner - your horse checks in with you instead of bolting away. Connection becomes your safety net.
✕ Starting over every two weeks
Tiny daily actions stacked through streak psychology mean consistency stops being a discipline problem. It becomes who you are. No more zero days.
✕ Hope horsemanship
You stop crossing your fingers and start working a system your horse can trust. Practical horsemanship + the inner work that actually makes the technique stick.
✕ Carrying it alone
You belong to a community of horsewomen who get it. Weekly live coaching with Jenny. Monthly deep-dives. A barn family that shows up when you do.
The Solution
Introducing

The Extraordinary Horsemanship Journey

The Extraordinary Horsemanship Journey program

The confidence-building horsemanship membership where women come to stop second-guessing and start showing up consistently — for themselves and their horses.

Built on a brand new approach to connection-based horse training and the Circle of Confidence framework,
you get the full program & training library
PLUS:

A clear path. A barn family.
And a daily practice that keeps you moving forward.

Yes! Show Me My Options

Instant access · No commitment · Full refund if it's not your fit

How It Works

It only takes 3 steps to start

1
🐴
Sign Up
Choose the best path to fit your needs
2
💛
Get Your Starting Point
A quick confidence quiz shows you where to begin — then the 4-Day Fresh Start gets you moving
3
✨
Become Her
The horsewoman your horse can trust
Where you areYou are becoming her
Jenny and Raven
The Story

In case we haven't met,
I'm Jenny…

Your horse-obsessed, connection-focused, extraordinary horsemanship coach and equestrian BFF.
The creator of HorseGirl.me, the Equestrian Extraordinary Life Planner, and The Extraordinary Horsemanship Journey. Co-creator of The Horse Training Channel and creative partner for Charlotte Cannon on the Cannon Method. But none of that is why you should trust me as your guide.

2,975+
Horse Girls Served
2x
World Champion Trainer
13+
Years HorseGirl.me
44,000+
Community Strong

I understand your struggles… because I have been there. I've stood paralyzed at the rail comparing myself to others.

I've dealt with skills not coming naturally, overcome traumatic injury, and faced fears I never had before children.

Despite coaching clients to championships as a professional trainer, I questioned every method I used.

Around 2012, I had an experience that confirmed to me what I had always innately felt about horses. Once you know how much a horse truly understands, you can't "unknow" it.

This realization led me on a decade-long journey from local shows to clinics in France, discovering that extraordinary horsemanship isn't about choosing connection OR performance—it's about blending everything I'd learned.

When I finally embraced this balanced approach, everything changed.

Alongside my dear friend, Charlotte Cannon, I've helped thousands of women transform their relationships with horses through proven, goal setting, confidence building & connection based training methods (they're kind of my thing!) When you experience how powerful (and fun) they can be, I'm pretty sure they'll be your "thing" too.

I'm ready - let's do this

Try the Journey free for 7 days · No commitment required

What's Inside

Five connected parts that build the
horsewoman, the partnership, and the becoming

One

The Circle of Confidence™ — Gives You the Why

The framework that turns your inner work into your horse's outer experience. Two layers working together: your inner foundation (mindset, leadership, skills, consistency) and your outer foundation (relaxation, connection, mutual trust, willing cooperation). This is the engine behind every part of the Journey - and the reason your horse can finally relax, connect, and trust.

The Philosophy
Two

The Pre-Ride Connection Check & P.R.E.P. — Gives You the Start

A real read on your horse and yourself before every ride, so you find resistance on the ground — not in the saddle. Most rides go sideways because the signs were there and nobody knew what to look for. P.R.E.P. is your personal Pre-Ride Equestrian Program that turns every session into a connected one before you ever pick up the reins.

The Daily Practice
Three

The Sensational 7 & Skill-Building Library — Gives You the What

Connection doesn't give us a pass on sharpening our skills. The seven horsemanship fundamentals that build every maneuver, every smooth transition, every soft willing moment — on the ground and under saddle. 60% practical horsemanship. 40% inner work. The technique you've been missing, taught in a way your horse can understand.

The Horsemanship
Four

Purpose-Full Practice & Pattern Library — Gives You the How

Patterns and exercises that practice the fundamentals on purpose. Your horse learns because the work makes sense to him — not because he's been drilled. Every ride builds something real, even on those days when you only have twenty focused minutes.

The System
Five

77-Day Seasons of Becoming + Weekly Rhythm — Gives You the Becoming

Pick a North Star. Track three tiny daily actions. Use streak psychology so consistency stops being a discipline problem.

Live Monday Momentum Calls every week at 7pm Central, bi-weekly private group coaching calls, monthly Strides Workshops for deep dives, and a 77-Day rhythm that makes extraordinary horsemanship something you ARE — not just something you learn. Complete 68 of 77 days and earn entry into the drawing for Moly's custom silver buckle.

The Rhythm

"It's more than just horse training. It's life training. It has changed not only my relationship with my horse, but my business life and my personal life."

— Kathryn Jane F.

Pick Your Path

You've got options, my friend

Most women start with Align - and that's perfect. Some women have a specific goal they're chasing, or an obstacle they are overcoming and want me in their pocket. Choose what's right for you!

Most Flexible
Align — Gold Level
Everything you need to build consistency, confidence, and partnership — at your pace.
$27/month
Or $243/year (3 months free + private 30-min coaching call with Jenny + Bonus Horse Training Journal)
Weekly Monday Momentum Calls with Jenny (live + replay, 7pm Central)
Monthly Strides Workshops — deep dives on confidence, feel, leadership, and more
Complete Circle of Confidence™ framework + Connection-Based Training Library
77-Day Seasons of Becoming with daily tracker + buckle drawing entry
A community of horsewomen who get it — share wins, ask questions, belong
Join anytime. Stay as long as it serves you. Cancel anytime.
Start Your 7-Day Free Trial or Commit To Yourself For 1 Year and Get Bonus FREE Coaching Session & Training Journal

Less than half the cost of a single riding lesson

Best For Goal-Driven Women
Personal Coaching
Elevate- The Extraordinary Horsemanship 1 Year Coaching Program
Everything in Align — PLUS a horsemanship coach in your pocket for a full year.
$77/month (1 Year Commitment)
Or pay $777 once (save $154) + Bonus Horse Training Journal
Everything in the Align Level (the full Journey membership)
One full year of voice-message coaching with Jenny — send me what's happening with your horse and get a real response, usually within hours
Customized Training Plan built around your specific goals, your horse, and where you are right now
Unlimited Video Feedback — send me your rides, groundwork, and sticky moments for clear, specific guidance
Bonus Horse Training Journal ($40 value — yours free)
Limited to 100 women total — almost at capacity from past programs
Claim Your Coaching Spot

Payment plan options available at checkout

7-Day, 100% Money-Back Guarantee

Try the Journey for a full 7 days. Explore the materials, join a Monday Momentum Call, even start your first implementation project. If it's not the right path for you and your horse, just let us know within your first week and we'll refund your investment — no questions asked, no hard feelings.

Questions

The questions women ask before they join

I've bought so many programs that didn't help. Why is this different?
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Because most programs are technique stacks — and you've already discovered that more technique doesn't fix what's actually broken. The Journey is a complete philosophy plus a path, a rhythm, and a community. The horsemanship is in there (80% of what we do). But it finally has somewhere to land because we're working on the inside half at the same time. That's why it sticks when other programs didn't.
What if I can only spend limited time with my horse each week?
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The Journey is built for real life, not fantasy schedules. Twenty focused minutes a few times a week is enough. No homework guilt. Tiny actions stacked through streak psychology beat heroic effort every single time. You don't need more time - you need a smarter use of the time you have.
What's the difference between Align and Elevate?
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Align ($27/mo) gives you the complete Journey — Monday calls, monthly Strides workshops, the full framework, the 77-Day Seasons, and the community. It's perfect for most women. Elevate ($77/mo) gives you everything in Align PLUS a year of voice-message coaching with me, a customized training plan, and unlimited video feedback. Elevate is for the woman with a specific goal - a first show, a level milestone, a big trail ride - who wants direct coaching support. We are in it together for the year. Making dreams & partnerships come to life!
Can I cancel if it's not the right fit?
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Absolutely. You have a 7-day money-back guarantee on the trial. After that, Align is month-to-month — stay as long as it's valuable to you and cancel anytime with no penalty or pressure. The Elevate Program because I give you heart and soul to see you succeed, and it is customized to you and your horse, is a one year commitment. Be sure to message me at [email protected] if you have questions :)
My horse has specific behavioral issues. Will the Journey help?
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Yes - because most behavioral issues are connection or pain issues wearing a different outfit. The Circle of Confidence + the Pre-Ride Connection Check are exactly the diagnostic tools that find where the partnership broke down — and the Sensational 7 gives you the practical horsemanship to rebuild it. If this program is not the right fit, I may refer you to my business partner Charlotte Cannon and The Cannon Method :)
Will this work with my discipline?
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Yes. Western, English, trail, show, liberty, groundwork only — the Circle is discipline-agnostic. The mental & confidence tools we provide with support you to grow at even the highest levels. The Sensational 7 underlies every maneuver in every discipline. Whether you're prepping for a class or just want safer rides at home, the work is the same.
What if I fall behind on the monthly themes?
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You don't. Every Strides Workshop is recorded and yours forever. Join in March and work through last December's theme in July — no penalty, no shame. The library is on your schedule, not the other way around.
I'm already taking lessons with a local trainer. Will the Journey conflict?
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No — it complements. Your local trainer works on what's happening outside you. The Journey works on what's happening inside you. The two layers together are how your lessons finally start sticking instead of slipping away the moment you leave the arena.
I'm a beginner. Is this for me?
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Yes. The Circle of Confidence starts wherever you are. Better to start right than start over later — and the inner foundation we build now will save you years of working through habits that don't serve you.
I don't own a horse. Can I still benefit?
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Yes. Identity work, leadership, presence, and connection apply whether you ride leased, lesson, or borrowed horses — or just love them from the rail right now. Many of our members don't currently ride and the work still serves them deeply.
What if I freeze when it's actually time to get on?
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That freeze is exactly what the Pre-Ride Connection Check is built to meet. You don't push past it. You don't shame yourself for it. You bring real skills to it — and you and your horse work through it together. That's what genuine safety looks like. Not bravery on demand. When you freeze- you post in the group for support, and if you are in Elevate Coaching you sit down on the mounting block and reach out to me for quick access to support!  Plus you have an army of gals just like you for support!
It's Time

Your horse has been waiting for the real you.

Not a braver version. Not a more disciplined version. The real you — calm, clear, finally trusting yourself. That's the woman your horse can soften into. And she's seven days away from showing up.

Pick the path that best fits you and your horse